Ep. #110 Hand In The Sand Mentality Leads To Increased Fulfillment

by Marci Barker / January 14th, 2025

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Hand In The Sand Mentality Leads To Increased Fulfillment

Hand In The Sand Mentality Leads To Increased Fulfillment

In this episode, I share how being on a cruise ship has given me the space to focus on writing my book, Becoming Boss Minded. Surrounded by other marketers, I’ve been reminded how easy it is to feel pressured to do everything people suggest for success. Instead, I reflect on a lesson from my mentor called "hand in the sand," which is about focusing on a few key priorities and letting go of the rest.

I discuss how taking on too many goals, especially ones that don’t align with your values, leads to burnout and failure. By narrowing your focus and saying no to distractions, you can be more productive and at peace. I’ve embraced this mindset to avoid FOMO and stay on track, and I encourage listeners to do the same by prioritizing what truly matters to them.

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Topics Covered in the Episode:

Writing a book while on a distraction-free cruise.

The pressure to follow others' advice for success.

"Hand in the sand" mindset for focusing on priorities.

The dangers of taking on too many goals.

How saying no helps avoid burnout.

Overcoming FOMO and staying focused.

The mental and emotional benefits of narrowing your focus.

Encouragement to prioritize what aligns with your values.

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